2024 HIGHLIGHTS: Part 10

 This rundown of 2024 Highlights should have ended in January but March is almost over and I haven’t listed everything yet. Well, as our Grade School teacher used to babble, “finished or not, pass your papers”. So I will end this recollection here and now. No IFs and definitely no BUTs.

As you may have noticed, the sequence of the 2024 Highlights were written in random order. It did not in any way follow a pattern whatsoever.

In so doing, let me finish this 10-part synopsis with my daughter Eia’s return to Shakey’s. Yes, she did! But unfortunately, the branch in SM Southmall closed so even though SM MOA is farther, we had no choice but to transfer her there.

We had to pay ₱35 for the CAVITEX toll (₱70 for the 2-way trip) and ₱50 for the parking fee. Not to mention the cost of gasoline and the extra time allotted for the journey going there.

But why would I still consent for her to work in Shakey’s MOA given the unfavorable scenario?

It is because I love my daughter so much that I would move heaven and earth just for her to experience what living really means. I consider her work as part of her Occupational Therapy. And that makes everything else acceptable.

(This is the final part of my 2024 recap. Stay safe everyone! Thanks for bearing with me through all these years.)

2024 HIGHLIGHTS: Part 9

 Exactly one year ago today was the saddest moment of my life in 2024. Ate Ella, the “WIND BENEATH MY WINGS” for 24 years finally left us to be reunited with her family in the States. I was of course very happy for her but at the same time, severely devastated with her departure.

All good things never last. A part of me died when I watched her disappear from my sight at the airport. I couldn’t stop my tears from flowing so I just cried and cried until God knows when.

I lost my no. 1 fan, my guardian angel, my counsellor, my constant partner through all the darkest and happiest days of my life. It was not easy to let go. But Ate Ella fervently prayed for this miracle. This was a dream come true for her. The least I could do was to be happy for her. Even though my heart was grieving. 

It still is.

Why Forgive?

 Let’s face it. When we are deeply hurt, we cannot find in our hearts to forgive the persons responsible for our misery. We are just humans after all. We recklessly cling to our anger, bitterness and resentments for as long as we possibly can. We couldn’t stop thinking of how we could take our revenge. We even wish that lightning strikes at them thrice. Or the ground they are trodding on suddenly breaks and swallow them whole.

While it is totally true that time heals all wounds, only time will tell when the lingering pain will stop—unless you deliberately put an end to it. You have the power in you to make it happen. When you hold on to negative emotions, you are actually punishing your own self. This kind of stress may unfortunately lead to a higher blood pressure and worse, a fatal heart attack.

Let go of everything that makes you boil inside. Be kind to yourself. Forgiving others doesn’t mean you have to be lovey-dovey with them. At the very least, free yourself of negative thoughts towards them. Then ask God to bless them instead of cursing them. Whether they ask forgiveness or not, forgive them anyway. Be responsible for your own actions and emotions.

Do yourself a favor. Choose happiness. Choose to forgive.

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2024 HIGHLIGHTS: Part 8

Do you harbor some regrets in your life? I have a few and the passing of my dear cousin last Decemer triggered one of them. I should have previously dropped everything and rushed to the hospital when I could still talk and laugh with him. For days, I cried because I was thousand of miles away when he died and couldn’t visit his wake. I was so afraid that by the time I get back in the Phils, it would be too late.

But truly, God works in very mysterious ways.  Gil’s burial was postponed and I was able to say my proper goodbye to him. His wife and sons were relieved to see me before he was laid to his final rest. We buried him on the very morning that I arrived. So grateful that our flight was not delayed and we touched down as scheduled. 

To be continued . . .

2024 HIGHLIGHTS: Part 7

Gio and I started our yoga practice January of 2023. Randomly, Eia would go with us and observe. But whenever I encourage her to join us, she would automatically affirm that she didn’t want.

Then sometime last year, Gio had to skip yoga for the physical therapy of his painful shoulder. Eia just watched me leaving the house alone for yoga practice.

Without any prodding from me, Eia simply declared one day that she will go with me to yoga.  And so, the two of us attended our yoga class without Gio until my son was finally discharged from his physical therapy.

Now, the three of us get to bond together by practicing yoga as one, happy family. Isn’t that amazing? Life is great!

To be continued . . .

2024 HIGHLIGHTS: Part 6

 One fine night, my son Gio unexpectedly asked me “would you be willing to accompany me in a 4k race?” I hid my excitement and replied “of course I would be more than willing. But isn’t there a longer distance, perhaps a 10k?” My son immediately informed me that there was only 1 category and no other options.

A few minutes later, he asked for my Credit Card. To my bewilderment, we were joining the Pokemon Run in Taiwan! Too late to back out now. I already consented to his wish.

And so we flew to Taiwan and arrived late at night. Woke up the following day and walked 4.5km to the venue. A festive atmosphere filled the grounds, families with babies, toddlers and children enjoying the Pokemon-inspired exhibits.

I will spare you with the details and go directly to the gist of this story.

We headed to the airport in the afternoon, boarded the plane and arrived late at night in Vietnam.

We again boarded the plane in the morning and headed to Bali, where we stayed for 2 nights. In going back to Manila, we stopped over first in Singapore.

So to summarize, we flew to 5 countries in 5 days. This may be a natural occurrence to some people but definitely NOT with me! 

To be continued . . .

2024 HIGHLIGHTS: Part 5

My mother has always been athletic. She was a volleyball spiker in her teens. A tennis player in her twenties. A golfer in her thirties. A bowler in her forties. And she did not just play for recreation. She religiously trained and played to win in competitions, usually reaching the Championships.

I have often wondered where she got all that energy, when she barely eats! She has no favorite food and her motto is “I only eat inorder to live.” Yup. That is my mother—eating only so she could perform her daily activities. She doesn’t eat junk foods nor drink alcohol. A little rice and lots of veggies used to be her food staple.

When people ask her what is her secret for maintaining her 36-27-36 figure she would answer in jest “I cannot maintain my production so I just maintain my figure”. When interviewed what is her secret for not having any maintenance meds, she would boastfully reply—“I am NOT a car. I don’t need maintenance. Just have enough food, enough sleep, enough exercise, enough rest, enough stress, and enough money to last a lifetime.”

My mother is the epitome of clean, healthy living. Yet she could not escape the illness that flows through the veins of her lineage. Last year, she was medically diagnosed to have Alzheimer’s Disease. (My tears are flowing while I am writing this.)

With her failing memory, she instructed me to invite anyone who was still excited to see her on her 90th birthday. Attended by 120 friends, relatives, former Philamlifers, Marbeleños, villagemates, her birthday bash was a Reunion of sorts. Filled with laughter and tears, it was an event no other.

To be continued . . .